I am Margaret Irons, wife of Steve, mother of three, grandmother of nine, former twenty-year member of the Geftakys Assembly in Fullerton, CA. To our consternation, we learned by hard experience that this Christian group had become a cult. After a huge struggle, we left in 1990. The Assembly imploded in 2003 after revelations of George Geftakys’s moral failure. Our experience took a huge toll on us. The damages from a cultic Christian group are broad and deep. What I blog about here has grown out of thirty years of wrestling with those issues.